Author: kristenmcnulty

Getting to Know You:

When it comes to money, what is your biggest concern?

Going Deeper:

Pastor Aaron made the point that his sermon was not really about money as much as it was about our relationship with Jesus.
– How does our relationship with God impact our relationship with money?
– Read Mark 10:23-25 – money is a huge struggle for unbelievers, so it makes sense that it would also affect followers of Jesus. What are some of the specific reasons we struggle to trust God and fully surrender our finances to him?
o Take time as a group to look at what the Scriptures has to say for each area of struggle that is shared in the group. Ask: how do we live out this truth in our lives starting now?

Read Mark 10:28-31
– What are the blessings that Jesus promises for those who surrender their finances to God? And specifically, how are persecutions a blessing for us as Christians?

Read Philippians 3:7-16
– Why do you think we tend to try and control our finances?
– According to Paul, knowing Jesus our Lord is worth far more than anything else in our lives. How does the power of knowing him lead us to the freedom we crave?

Taking it Home:

Commit this week to memorizing a verse that speaks to a specific struggle you are facing with money. Surrender this struggle to God, ask him to lead you to the freedom found in Jesus as you give him your finances.

Getting to Know you:
• Take a few moments to list some specific blessings that you’re thankful to God for.

Going Deeper:
• Look up Phil.3:10-11. Discuss what Paul wants to know in these verses.
o What do sufferings allow us to know and experience according to Paul.
o What is the connection to suffering and our resurrection?
• In Romans 5:1-5 and James 1:3-4 there’s a clear sequence of events that stat with suffering. Map out the sequence and discuss each of the steps that suffering brings.
• How would you talk with a fellow believer who’s considering MAID? What about a family member or friend who doesn’t know Jesus?
• Look up the following verses that describe people struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts. What did they
experience and how did God help them through it? Ecc.2:17, 1 Kings 19:1-8, Jonah 4:8-11, Ps.43, 2 Cor.1:8-9
• How would you answer someone who thinks suicide is an unforgiveable sin? The Catholic church teaches it’s a mortal sin deserving of hell. See Matt.12:31-32 and John 10:28-29, Heb.13:5, Eph.1:13-14.
• Discuss this quote from John Piper “you are immortal until God’s purpose for you is complete.” See Acts 13:36.

Taking it Home:
• Think about how you might encourage someone this week. Write a note, send an email, make a phone call. Encourage one another, even more as we see the day approaching. Heb. 10:25

Getting to Know you:
• What’s most amazing about God’s grace in your life?

Going Deeper:
• Discuss the value of a child in the womb according to Ex.21:22-25. Why should we have fetal homicide laws according to these verses?
• Read Psalm 139:1-6…what does God know about us? How should we respond to this?
• Read Psalm 139:7-12. Where is God? How should that impact us?
• Read Psalm 139:13-16. Discuss what God tells us about the importance/viability of a child in the womb in these verses.
o What involvement does God have in the developmental process?
• Read Psalm 139:17-24. What type of response should we have to God’s creative power?
• Look up Lev.18:21 and Lev.20:1-5. What does the worship of Molech have to do with modern day abortion industry? What does God have to say about this child sacrifice?
• How might we as a church family help those considering abortion and come alongside of women who have experienced the trauma of abortion?
• Watch “Debunking every major pro-choice argument” by Allen Parr.

Taking it Home:
• Spend time this week thanking God for his forgiveness, grace and mercy in your life.
• Meditate on Ex.34:6 this week

Getting to Know You:

• What is your dream vacation and why?
  
  Going Deeper:
• What right does God have to give us our
  identity? Look up Genesis 1:24-27, Psalm 24:1,
  Psalm 100:3
  o What does it look like for us to live out
  our identity as image bearers of God?
  o How do we live that out in our maleness
  and femaleness?
• Discuss how God has made us body, soul and
  spirit. What does it look like for us to relate to
  God with body, soul and spirit? See 1 Cor.6:18-
  20, Lk.1:46-56
• Discuss some of the physical, emotional and
  spiritual differences between male and female.
  Why is it good that God made us so different?
• Read Romans 8:19-24. Discuss what sin has
  done to creation and what God will do for the
  creation, including our bodies. What is this such
  good news and hope for everyone, especially
  someone who is gender dysphoric?
• Our culture suggests there are 72 different
  genders. As believers why can we not accept the
  belief that gender is a spectrum and that we can
  define our own gender? How might you answer
  someone who does believe this?
• Look up Matt.16:22-24 and discuss what it
  means to deny ourselves in relation to gender
  theory.
• How do you feel a Christian should respond to
  someone who insists you use their preferred
  pronouns, at work, in a social setting, at school,
  at church? Use scripture to back up your answer
• How might we stand for truth in a culture that
  increasingly is hostile to a biblical worldview.
  Use Matt.5:10-12
  
  Taking it Home:
• Memorize Matt.5:10-12 or Matt.11:28

Getting to Know You:

Share your most recent answer to prayer with your group.

Going Deeper: 

Lindsay Taylor made the point that making a “kingdom impact” through prayer starts with abiding in Christ.

• Read John 15:1-18 together.
• What does it mean to “abide in Christ”? And how does abiding in Christ lead to prayer that makes a kingdom impact?
• Read Ephesians 6:18, 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18. In our lives today, what stops us from praying in this way? How can we practically change this?

Read Ephesians 6:18 again, and also James 5:13-16 and Mark 11:20-26.

• These verses are clear that God can, and does, answer prayer with miracles. What are some guidelines in these verses for praying? How do we navigate the tension between praying in faith and the reality of how God might (or might not) answer our prayers?
  Lindsay said that God’s Word, not our feelings, needs to guide our prayers so that our prayers make a kingdom impact. In what ways do we tend to let our feelings guide our prayers? What does it look like, practically, for our prayers to be anchored in God’s Word?

Lindsay said that as followers of Jesus we are not ‘planted’ in this world to be ornaments, but rather to serve Him by bearing His fruit.

• In what ways do you struggle with ‘ornamentalism’?
• How can prayer help us live our lives not as Christian ornaments, but rather as Christians who are centered on Christ?

Taking it Home: “Knock on Heaven’s door” together as a group for specific requests, seeking God’s glory and kingdom to come.

Getting to know you:

• Discuss a time you felt/were super awkward or
  out of place. How did that make you feel?

Going Deeper:

• Read Genesis 18:20-33, 19:4-11. What’s the
  reason God sent angels to the twin cities?
  o Talk about the mercy God was willing to
  show in 18:22-32
  o Which person of the trinity is present in
  this story and caused the destruction of
  Sodom? Support your answer with
  Gen.18. Why is this finding so crucial?
• Read Lev.18 and list the unholy sexual relations
  in these verses.
  o According to vs.27 what does God call
  all of these unholy actions? What is the
  reason they are unholy?
  o What’s the result for God’s people if we
  participate in these actions? See vs.24-
  30.
• According to 1 Cor.6:9-11 those who are
  unrighteous don’t enter the kingdom. Why can
  we not “agree to disagree” on homosexual
  activity with others according to these verses.
  o Discuss the difference between a
  lifestyle sin and one we may trip into
  occasionally and how that affects our
  eternity.
• Read Revelation 2:20-22. What does John say
  should be done to those who teach the
  opposite of what scripture teaches in the realm
  of sexuality?
• Which one of the 4 objections to scriptures
  teaching on homosexual activity that PK
  mentioned Sunday have you had interactions
  with and how might we answer it biblically?
• How should we respond to the gay community
  and fellow believers struggling with SSA? Use
  scripture to back up your answer.
  
  Taking it Home:
• Read through 1 Cor.6:9-11 and thank God this
  week for washing, for sanctifying, for justifying
  you!

Getting to Know You:

• Why do you think its easier to believe our culture
  and our own feelings instead of what God says?
• Where did you receive your sex ed? Friends,
  home, school, church, entertainment. How did
  that affect your world view on sex?
  
  Going Deeper:
• Look up Genesis 2:18-24.
  o Why did God create Eve and how did
  Adam respond to God’s gift?
  o Note vs.24 and list the vows of this 1st
  wedding ceremony.
  o What does it mean to be one flesh and
  how can we wreck that?
  o Can one flesh be restored and how is
  that possible?
• Why is it so crucial that Jesus endorsed the
  Genesis account of marriage and human
  sexuality in Matt.19:4-7?
• Look up Genesis 1:28 and Psalm 127:3-5 and
  discuss one purpose for sex in marriage.
  o Why does our culture downplay this
  purpose so much?
• Look up Prov.5:18-19 and 1 Cor.7:2-5 and discuss
  two other purposes for sex in marriage.
• Look up the following verses and discuss the
  consequences of a lifestyle of sexual immorality.
  o 1 Cor.6:9-11,18-20, Gal.5:19-21,
  Revelation 22:15, Heb.13:4
  o What’s the difference between
  practicing these things and falling into
  sexual sin?
• As a single person, what might you do to follow
  God’s design for sex? What about a married
  couple?
  Taking it Home:
• Memorize a fight verse that deals with an area of
  sexual sin that you struggle with and learn to
  fight with it when tempted.

Getting to Know You:

Share with the group a memorable time (good or bad) when you stepped out of your comfort zone and took leadership of a situation.

Going Deeper: 

Tim Strickland opened his message with this statement: “God’s pattern in the Bible is to call and empower leaders to lead His people in His work”. Share together examples of such people from the Bible. Then, share an example of a time this happened to you, or to someone close to you.

Read Romans 12:3-8. What does this passage teach us about God’s people, the Church?

Is leadership limited just to “leading with diligence [zeal]”, or is it expressed in the other gifts that Paul lists in this passage?

What fears do we have that limit us from leading (however that may look)? Read each of the following passages and discuss what each says about God (who He is) and what that means for taking leadership in our lives:

-Galatians 1:10

-Joshua 1:7-9

-Actus 4:13

-1 Timothy 3:1

-Galatians 6:9

-Judges 5:9

Read Mark 9:33-37. What does it mean to be a “servant of all”? And why is it essential for leadership?

As followers of Jesus, how do we grow in servanthood? Note: there is no easy/fast way to do this, so consider: How does this process begin and then continue?

Taking it Home:

Discuss practical ways you might take initiative as a servant leader this week. Consider what this would look like in marriage, with family, at work, at church, etc.

Getting to Know You: 

• Talk about something exciting, scary or crazy that happened to you over the summer months.

Going Deeper: 

• Talk about how God’s choosing/election and our response/faith/choice go hand in hand from what you’ve learned from Romans 9-10. 
• What’s some ways people misunderstand faith and what is necessary to have saving faith?  How might you address that with family/friends who have that misunderstanding? 
• Discuss the following.  “Saving faith is a one time decision that leads to a lifetime commitment.”
  • Read Gal.2:20 to help inform your answer.
• Share your testimony of coming to faith in Jesus and how God used other people in the process.
• In Romans 10:15 Paul reminds us that we are all preachers.  Read Matt.28:18-20, Eph.6:18-20 and 2 Cor.5:18-21 to find out how we can equip ourselves for this task. 
• Discuss the following:  It’s not our job to save people, that’s God’s job.  What is our job according to 1 Cor.3:5-9?
  • How should we seek to cultivate the fields that are ripe?
• Beside God’s Word, what other things speak the gospel according to Ps.19:1-6, Rom.2:14-15

Taking it Home: 

• Pray one of the following verses each day this week asking God to increase your faith.  Mark 9:24, Prov.3:5-6, Ps.31:24, Ps.62:6, Isa.41:10, 1 Peter 5:7

Getting to Know you: 

• Talk about a neighbour war you’ve experienced. How did you handle it? Did it get resolved and how? 

Going Deeper: 

• What does Matt. 4:7 and Deut.6:16 tell us about putting God to the test? Why did the lawyer put Jesus to the test?

o What’s the only place we can test God according to Malachi 3:10. What is this verse encouraging us to do? 

• Read Luke 10:25. Why do so many people default to “doing” to gain entrance into God’s kingdom? 

o What are some ways Christians attempt to live by works after salvation? 

o What does Jesus mean when he says, “do this and live”? Does it mean we can earn our salvation? 

• Discuss the beauty of the mercy of God according to the following verses: 1 Peter 1:3, Exodus 34:6, Lam. 3:22-23, Eph. 2:4-5, Matt. 5:7 

• Read Luke 10:29. Why does the lawyer want to justify himself? 

o How do we attempt to justify ourselves in our everyday lives? 

o How do we attempt to justify ourselves before God? 

o What does Luke 16:14-15 tell us about justifying ourselves? 

• What did the Samaritan do that points us to Jesus? 

Taking it Home: 

• Jesus commands us to show mercy and compassion to others. What’s one way you’re going to plan to show mercy this week?